Top 5 Mistakes People Make With Hair Extensions (and How to Avoid Them)

 

Hair extensions are one of the best ways to transform your look instantly — from adding volume and length to creating that glamorous “Rapunzel Queen” vibe. But if they aren’t cared for properly, extensions can quickly lose their beauty and even damage your natural hair.

As a Master Colorist and Hair Extensions Specialist in Midtown East, Manhattan, I see clients all the time who unknowingly make small mistakes that shorten the life of their extensions. Let’s break down the top five — and how to avoid them.

1. Washing Extensions the Wrong Way

Scrubbing extensions like natural hair is a big no-no. Harsh rubbing can cause matting, tangling, and premature shedding.

What to do instead:

• Use a sulfate-free, extension-safe shampoo.
• Gently massage the scalp and smooth product down the extensions — never pile your hair on top of your head.

2. Skipping Heat Protection

Flat irons, curling wands, and blow dryers can dry out and weaken extensions. Without protection, the hair becomes brittle and lifeless.

Pro tip: Always apply a lightweight heat protectant spray before styling. Treat your extensions with the same (or more!) care you give your natural hair.

3. Sleeping Without Protection

Going to bed with loose extensions can cause tangles and breakage overnight.

Solution:

• Braid your hair loosely or tie it into a low ponytail before bed.
• Use a silk or satin pillowcase to minimize friction and frizz.

4. Using the Wrong Products

Drugstore shampoos loaded with sulfates, heavy oils, or alcohols can strip or coat extensions, leaving them dry or greasy.

Instead: Stick with professional products (I recommend Milbon, Olaplex, or Amika) that are designed to keep extensions hydrated and strong.

5. Delaying Maintenance Appointments

Extensions need regular check-ups — especially tape-ins, I-tips, and sew-ins. Waiting too long can lead to slipping, tangling at the roots, or stress on your natural hair.

Best practice: Schedule your maintenance every 6–8 weeks (or as recommended by your stylist).

Final Thoughts

When applied and cared for correctly, extensions can last beautifully and protect your natural hair at the same time. Avoiding these five mistakes will save you time, money, and frustration — and keep your hair looking flawless.

✨ Ready to experience seamless, healthy extensions? Book your appointment with me at Fabi Pro Beauty Hair & Makeup Studio in Midtown East, Manhattan. Visit www.fabiprobeauty.com or follow @fabiprobeauty on Instagram to see transformations, tips, and my latest work.